Monday, October 19, 2009


I really do not know any more and I can only write about what I do know.

I am going to focus on what makes me happy, running and friendship. I know running. I am learning that I do not know how to be gay. I do not even know what it means or how to belong to the the 'gay community'. I do not belong to this community.

Welcome to my training blog.

Happy Training!


  1. It is like anything else in life, you define what being gay is for yourself. Make it your journey, that is the only path to true happiness.

  2. Just be yourself and you'll be fine. You don't need to belong to a community if you don't fit in. My personal view is that being gay is just a tiny part of who I am so I really don't make that the focus of my entire life even if I do have a samesex partner and am not afraid to share that part of my life with anyone who is open enough (including family, friend, colleagues, blog readers, etc).

    Just focus on yourself, being whole and complete and eventually someone will come along, trust me. Until you are whole, complete and happy by yourself, you won't be ready to receive mr right even if he comes along.